Fat Bald and 45

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"I'm fat, bald, and 45—my life is over!"

That's what I said when my marriage fell apart.

A friend pulled me aside and said, "Dude, you're the nicest guy I know. If my sister were single, I'd set her up with you tonight!" Other friends chimed in, giving me confidence as a single dad to find the woman who'd be my true life partner, blend my family successfully with hers, and have an awesome life.

This site lets you experience my journey from that brutal divorce, through happiness and hurting, to my recent diagnosis of terminal cancer—but I'm still here for now!

Along with raw stories of dreams, failure, true love, and cancer, I'll also share my thoughts on all aspects of life, religion, neurodiversity, autism, music that's meant so much to me, doing poetry readings of song lyrics from new bands I like, and more.

Enjoy!

Herman Lennon
(umm... no relation to John)

Contact Herman Lennon with Questions.